I set you both up with author priveleges so you can originate posts just like on the old ask mr porn board. Everyone else I know who posted regularly is already set up and if there is anyone I forgot all they need to do is make a comment somehwere and I will add them.
Blogs need posts to get visited a lot by the SE and the more posts and comments the better it is. Doesn’t matter if it’s a porn blog or a non adult blog.